Wednesday, April 29, 2015

Beauty Products for the Cancer Patient

While I am going through treatment for cancer, beauty seems to be irrelevant.  Oh, I still care about looking presentable, but I have no hair.  I have no eyebrows.  I have three eyelashes, stubbornly clinging to my eyelid, and my eyes are watering constantly due to the chemo.  My fingernails and toenails are falling off, and the skin is peeling from my hands and feet.  Those are just little things, I know.  The bigger picture is always at the back of my mind.  All those things will pass, eventually. 

But in the meantime?  I can't wear makeup.  I can't paint my nails or go get a pedicure. My beauty routine right now is a three minute shower, followed by...not much else.  Since my fingernails started loosening up, I haven't even been able to put on jewelry without assistance.  I've gone down a couple of sizes since all this started, but I'm waiting to buy new pants until after chemo.  Just to celebrate. 
Still, not much of a beauty routine...except that I do have some beauty products that are helping.

The good folks at Influenster.com sent me something free to try out, and it's really cool.  Neutrogena Naturals.  These are towlettes that one can use to remove makeup, if you happen to be wearing any, and they can be used to clean the face. The hope is that you'll use these instead of washing your face, and conserve water.  
The great thing about these towelettes is that they make my skin feel very soft.  Plus, I can use these to clean around my eyes, which are a bit chapped right now from my constant chemo water works.  I even run this towelette over my bald head, and it feels wonderfully cool, especially after wearing a hat all day.  Since I've been using these, I've actually had people compliment me on my skin, and those compliments are gold to my poor ego.  Neutrogena always seems to have terrific skin care at good prices. 

Another beauty product that I've found helpful has been Bag Balm.  This is something that farmers use on the udders of cows, but it works for hands too.  At night I slather my hands with the stuff, then put on cotton gloves.  It has helped with some of the more severe cracking and peeling, especially between my fingers.  I think that it's the lanolin in the bag balm that does the miracle magic, and I love it.  I ordered my Vermont Bag Balm on Amazon. 

I can't use lanolin on my face, but I have been using this Clinique product, Turnaround Overnight Radiance.  It's a moisturizer, and it's helped keep the dry, leathery skin that sometimes accompanies chemo far, far away.   When I was younger, I used to use Clinique's Turnaround cream,
and this version of it has seemed to help keep my skin hydrated enough to get me through the day.  Sephora sells this stuff for $12.50, which is pretty reasonable. 

Using sunscreen during the day also helps, as does wearing a wide brimmed hat, particularly when I go to my son's soccer games or am outside longer than five minutes. But I did that before I had cancer, because my skin is white enough to be seen from space. My favorite sunscreen is, of course, Neutrogena, particularly their stick versions.  I find the sticks seem to go on my skin better and blend in easier. 

My lips are extra chapped right now because my mouth has all those sores in it and that makes me drink extra water and lick my lips.  Don't judge.  To combat that lovely cracked lip look, I use Sally Hansen's Overnight Lip Recovery, which is truly a godsend.  It doesn't evaporate likes some lip balms. It actually is still on my lips when I wake up!  My lips never had it so good.  Plus, a tube typically lasts a long time. Which is great, because this stuff is also the hardest to find, and it is a bit pricey.   I searched every Walgreens and CVS locally, in addition to Walmart and other stores near me, with no luck.  So I finally ordered it from Amazon.

These are the products that are keeping me sane right now, at least as much as a cancer patient can be considered sane.  I may look a hot mess, but this too, shall pass.  My hair will start to grow back, new fingernails and toenails will show up, and the cracks in my skin will heal.  I'll be back to my old neurotic "Do my shoes have to match my eye shadow?" self in no time, I promise. 

8 comments:

  1. Bless your heart! Have you tried coconut oil? Since I've been on Zoladex and Arimidex and stripped of all estrogen, my skin is really dry. I use plain ol' found-it-in-the-food-section-at-Target coconut oil. It has no odor (I mean, I LIKE coconut, but I don't want to smell like I'm at the beach all the time). I slather it on morning and night. It will take off waterproof mascara (not an issue with three lashes, I understand, but you'll get 'em back) gently. I have a small jar that once held something else that didn't work and I keep it filled with coconut oil from the big bottle I keep under the bathroom sink.

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    1. Coconut oil? I will have to look into that. Thanks!

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  2. You are so cool to post this for others experiencing the same. I am going to share this with someone who I think might find help/relief/comfort from your post. You rock!!

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    1. I'm trying to get something positive out of all this, and of I can help others, all the better!

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  3. Three eyelashes, some of your hair is holding down the fort. I'm glad you have found these products to get through this rough patch. Get past menopause and you will need to pull them out again.
    Sending a prayer your way. I wish I could make it better for you.

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    1. Thank you. Your comments always make me smile!

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  4. Bag Blam is a fantastic product. Sometimes I found the smell a bit off putting, but for the nasty cracks in the hands there is no better cream. I am so glad you've found some products that work for you. My MIL seems to have given in to much of the "annoyances" that go along with all things chemo, which honestly I find sad. It's the little things that keep you sane as you said, and I worry about her giving into the crazy on a daily basis.

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    1. Hang in there--your MIL is probably doing the best she can. The crazy sometimes helps.

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